What is the 4?
Becoming Mint4More is to grow in your personal and relational capabilities – known as character and competence. Character is “Who am I?” and competence is “Why do I do what I do?” There are 4 major traits that are developed the more you abide with God, or they will continue to be underdeveloped to the degree that you are turned away from Him. These traits are Connection, Extraordinary, Acceptance, Determination. They best define what about you is being transformed by the Holy Spirit in your personal walk with God and in your relationship with others.
How you relate internally and with others
At Mint4More, we understand that the foundation of meaningful relationships starts with a healthy connection to yourself. Through our coaching, we explore the concept of attachment, helping you develop secure, loving connections rooted in self-awareness and emotional intelligence.
Understanding your attachment style is key to forming and maintaining relationships that are fulfilling and authentic. Whether it’s your relationship with God, yourself, or others, we guide you in identifying patterns that shape your interactions and help you build healthier, more connected relationships.
By fostering a strong sense of attachment, you’ll gain the confidence and security to navigate life’s complexities with grace. Embrace your God-designed identity, and watch as your relationships flourish.
Learning boundaries and conflict management that celebrate who you are
Life is full of separations—whether it’s the loss of a loved one, the end of a chapter, or the realization of personal limits. At Mint4More, we help you navigate these challenging aspects of life with a Christ-centered perspective, turning moments of separation into opportunities for growth.
Through our coaching, we address feelings of shame, grief, and disappointment, guiding you to a place of acceptance and healing. We emphasize the importance of understanding yourself as deeply loved by God, despite life’s hardships. This foundational truth allows you to move beyond pain and into a life filled with grace and purpose.
By embracing the lessons that come from separation, you can find peace and resilience, knowing that God’s love is steadfast, even in the most difficult times.
Accepting negative realities in yourself and others with love instead of shame
ACCEPTANCE means being aware of the negative realities that exist in your life – both in yourself and others, understand the reality of unhealthy relationships that have exist and still exist in your life, understand how those relationships and negative realities influence the way you see yourself, and are aware of how you cope in healthy and unhealthy ways with these realities. It means being able to express sadness in a healthy way, grieve over past hurt, mistakes, and loss, you can begin to accept and forgive others, yourself, and the existence of a negative past, and take steps not to repeat past mistakes or cope in unhealthy ways.
Acceptance is also understanding the existence of shame that you feel about yourself and move towards accepting yourself, change common negative thinking patterns that cause you to think you, others, or situations are all bad, and can contain the mistakes, sin, and negative realities in others without confronting them with shame. With Acceptance you can see yourself and others as neither good or bad- but loved, operate from a loved-based sense of morality for yourself and in relationship with others instead of a rules-based mentality, and you value your love and relationship for others rather than focus on your or their performance.
Growing out of old habits, making wise choices, and living in your calling
Adulthood is a time to embrace responsibility, maturity, and the unique gifts that God has given you. At Mint4More, we focus on helping you navigate this important stage of life with clarity and purpose.
Our coaching sessions emphasize the development of leadership skills, decision-making, and self-leadership. Whether you’re advancing in your career, building relationships, or pursuing personal growth, we help you align your actions with your God-given purpose.
By understanding your role as an adult, you’ll gain the confidence to lead a life that reflects your values and serves others. At Mint4More, we’re here to guide you as you step into the fullness of your potential, living a life that honors the gifts and responsibilities God has entrusted to you.
